Sunday, 14 January 2007

Motivation, Being Happy and Good People

It's Sunday and it's just past 4pm. I've hung around on the couch all day thinking about things that I need to do. Things that would probably make my life easier. One of the down sides of being single is that there's no accountablilty. There's no one to motivate me. I would think that having someone else in the house would be encouragement to keep the kitchen clean. Who knows. Would I change to make someone happy? Or would I change because they make me happy? Time will only tell.

In about an hour I'll need to start getting ready for a party. I was actually invited to two parties tonight. Shocker! One of them would be with a crap load of people that I don't know and the other one is with old friends celebrating a birthday. Hmmm, wonder which one I'll go to. I'm in the mood to be with old friends. To relive memories of days past. To remind myself of strong friendships. These are good people. These are the people who make me remember how to laugh.

1 comment:

Angelo said...

Past 4pm on a Sunday, a.k.a. past 11am my time, hint hint, lol.

"Would I change to make someone happy? Or would I change because they make me happy? Time will only tell."

Hopefully it is a little of both. You change to make the person happy (the art of compromise), while in effect you are changing because the person makes you happy. Basically, I'm saying why would you compromise with someone if they didn't make you happy? Why would you be with them in the first place? So in essence, you would be doing it to make them happy, but also b/c they make you happy in return. :)